Saturday, November 24, 2018

6 Steps to Choose Your Event or Wedding Theme

You’ve picked out the perfect guest list and the date is finally set, what’s next? The planning has just begun and the most important step is coming up next. It’s time to pick your event theme. 

With any important event, picking a theme can be extremely stressful. The theme sets the mood for the entire event and therefore if you choose the wrong theme for the wrong group, it could create a total party foul! 

Don’t let that discourage you though, if you follow these six steps, you can master the art of event theme do’s and don’ts!

Step one:​​ ​Set goals
 


When you start the initial planning for an event, it’s important to break down the exact nature of the event. You must figure out what you’re working towards, how you can achieve this and why this is what you’d like to achieve. Set about five goals by answering the following questions to help you keep the event on track with your plan.  What is the purpose of your event?  Who will be hosting your event?  Who will be attending your event?  What feel would you like your guests to receive?  Is this a one-time event or a repeated event? 

Taking the time to set these goals and even write them down will help plan a theme that strictly follows the intent of the event. From this point, you can begin to narrow down any themes that fit to your goals!

Step two: ​​Evaluate your audience 
 



The guest list is a huge factor in the choice of theme for an event. While obtaining a guest list is a typical procedure in event planning, its rather more important than you would expect. By outlining a rough list of whom would be in attendance, you can begin to refine themes. For example, if your event is centered around marketing the newest Apple product to small business owners, it would be rather out of the ordinary to throw a Disney Princess themed event. 

It’s extremely important to take the time to ask yourself: Who will be invited?  Who will be in attendance?  What is the age range of these guests and will families be invited? 

A corporate holiday party might allow spouses and children to attend as well, which will drastically change the event theme to accommodate possibly younger audience members. The guests in attendance are a huge factor in the planning of an event and if you don't take the guest list into account, your theme could end up being drastically wrong for your event. 

Step three:​​ ​Choosing the date 
 



Choosing the date of the event early on in the event planning process will help to narrow down events that wouldn't necessarily fit your event. For example, a fall event wouldn’t typically be given a beach theme. And similarly a summer event would more likely be in an outdoor or open venue to embrace the weather.  Choosing your event date will also help to create your event planning plan. It is rather unlikely that you can plan an event in two weeks. Likewise, if you’re planning an event for the summer of 2020, it would make no sense to send out invitations in the fall of 2018. Planning the date allows for the venue, theme, and invitations to begin their planning process.

Step four​​: ​Choosing a venue


The venue comes later in the planning process because it is extremely important to first know your audience and goals. After assessing the amount of guests, you’re now able to look into a venue. A big mistake that people often make is finding a venue that doesn't fit the guests. For a small, intimate event with only 25 guests in attendance, you don’t want to book a venue that can fit 500 people. Similarly, for a guest list of 500, a venue that can accomodate 100 people is certainly not going to work.  By planning your venue according to your guest list, you can insure that your venue will perfectly accommodate the people in attendance. 

The use of decorations and activities that tie into your event can make the theme really show. Yet, going the extra step of incorporating the venue and catering into the theme could allow you to throw the event of the year! The perfect venue allows for the perfect opportunity to incorporate your theme. Let's say you're throwing a New Years Eve 20’s themed party, a rustic barn wouldn't necessarily fit the theme. However, a ballroom in a New York Skyrise could be more appropriate for the theme.

Having a venue that shows not only the theme but accommodates the guest will allow for your event to run smoothly and memorably for all of the attendees!

Step five: ​​Brainstorm 











The most important step in the planning process is the brainstorming. When choosing an event theme, it is important to be both original and engaging. 

Original doesn’t necessarily mean that your event theme must be something that's never been done before. In this day and age, finding something absolutely original is like finding a needle in a haystack. The trick to finding a theme that appears entirely original is adding your own style to it. Your personal or professional brand is one of the biggest factors to making something stand out. If you take a theme that has been used, yet add your own spin to it, your guests will feel as though they’ve never seen anything like it. 

Many people find that it is extremely helpful to turn the brainstorming step into a physical being. By creating vision boards, mind maps, or other notes of your thoughts, you can follow your process and could even end up combining two themes that work best for your goals.

To be engaging is to have activities that will keep the guests interested in what is happening. Incorporating games or crafts that tie to the theme of the event will add that extra spice. So when choosing a theme, ask yourself: can I create a game out of this? Can I keep people interested in what's happening? If the answer is no to either of these questions, this theme should probably get the big thumbs down!

Still Stuck?

Here are just a few themes that you can choose to use or change to fit your brand: 
● Milestones in your childhood (prom, graduation, homecoming) ● Generationally themed (20s, 50s, 80s) ● Red carpet ● Every-day escapes (future, beach, Paris)

Still haven't found something that fits what you want? Sometimes the absolute best theme is one that you find after looking at your own brand. What are your brand’s values? What would you like to show the guests? An event doesn't necessarily need to have a tangible theme. Your theme could be rebirth or growth for companies that want to get their name back out to the customers. 

Step six:​​ ​Invitations and RSVPs 
 


After you’ve brainstormed and come up with your theme, the last step and arguably the worst step in the theme planning process is choosing the invitations and the rsvp method. Invitations are typically the first way that the guest will become aware of the theme. Therefore these are the front man for your event. In order to make sure these match your theme, you must pick your theme before sending your invitations. 

There are many different types of invitations that can be sent out:

● Traditional paper invitations 
● Evite, Punchbowl, paperlesspost, etc. 
● Facebook event 
● Handwritten or typed invitations

Not only do you want to show your theme in the body of the invitation but it is important to choose a method of sending your invitation that fits your theme. It is very unlikely that a formal event would send out a Facebook event invitation just as it is rather unlikely that a virtual themed event would send out handwritten invitations. 

Past the actual invitations, you must also take into account the RSVP process. For more traditional and formal events, an RSVP would include not only the invitee’s yes or no, but also whether or not they would be bringing a plus-one and their choice of meal for the night. RSVPs need to be chosen according to the theme just as much as the actual invitation. If it’s not applicable to send out a paper RSVP, you could include in the invitation to RSVP to either the direct person, or an email or phone number. 

The RSVP also allows for a chance to really set the rules on guests. Whether it is going to be a strict one guest per invitation rule or if you can bring a plus-one, or even a plus-five. RSVPs are used for the host to gain information for their guests, so use these to your greatest advantage! 

Make it perfect 












Choosing an event theme can be a difficult and stressful part of the event planning process; however it can also be the most enjoyable part. The theme is what brings your event to life so choose carefully but enjoy it all the while. Your theme will now be what you work off of to bring the event of your dreams to life. Allow every event to be perfect and thrive off of the celebration just like we do down at Golden Knot Yacht Services!

Written by Emily Surabian, a Marketing & Event Planning Intern for Golden Knot Yacht Services. We are a Yacht Event Planning Company for Weddings, Corporate Events, and Special Occasions with yachts located in New York City, NJ, Philadelphia, DC, Baltimore, Annapolis, Florida, San Diego, Newport Beach, Marina Del Ray, Hawaii, Boston, Miami, and the Bahamas. Visit our website for more information www.goldenknotys.com
Follow us everywhere! @goldenknotyacht 



Wednesday, October 17, 2018

Event & Wedding Planner Behind the Scenes

Getting to know the planner behind the scenes
We like to call ourselves the hybrids of the event planning industry, 
because we can be hired for full service planning needs which include the venueand vendors. Or we can work with planners themselves who just need us for venuelogisitic management for the yachts, catering, bar, beverage, and service staff.No matter the level of service we're hired to do, seeing an event come to realitybehind the scenes is our favorite part of the job! Royal treatment customer service is a phrase we hold ourselves to every day. We love working with other creatives and clients just beginning in the wedding or event process. And we'll strive everyday to make sure you feel the same way! Today we'll take a closer lookbehind the scenes of our full service planning.




What is an event planner?
To the common person, the event planner is the person that assists in the basic planning of an event. While this is not incorrect, it only conveys half of the truth. The event planner is the ringleader of the event. They are the person who is entrusted with acting as an intermediary between all vendors and you, the client. In many ways, the planner strings together all of the little details of your event and ties them up into a nicely wrapped packaged all before the event date.
Pre-event preparation
Meet your planner
Before an event, what is at the top of your To-Do list? Make an appointment with the best possible planner for your individual event!
Our event planner is there for your benefit! In your first meeting, you will explain your idea for your event, which they will help bring to life. An event can follow whatever style, budget, or schedule that fits you best. The more detail that your planner receives, the more ammo they have to create the perfect event for you.  
Timeline
An event takes time to execute and can be stressful. This is the exact reason that you are looking to hire an event planner! In order to give our planners enough time to prepare, we ask that you schedule your event at the soonest convenience.  For a wedding, the preparations begin anywhere from 12-16 months before the event date. However, each event is individual and will vary in preparation time. Once the initial meeting has occurred, the planner can begin to find the perfect venue, vendors, and all other details for your event. Making your initial meeting with your planner as soon as possible will help to make your event the event of the year!
Vendors
What is a vendor? A vendor is a company that assists in the creation and prosecution of your event. The planner connects and communicates with different vendors to provide the client with the best company to accommodate their event. The vendors that work with GKYS offer services in a variety of different categories, such as rental equipment, dress/suit designers, florists, DJs, caterers, drinks, bakers, graphic designers, photographer, videographers, etc. While, yes, you could pick any of these companies all on your own, the advantage of having a planner is that the planner will offer their recommendation of vendors based off of their previous experience to find a vendor that will fit your vision. The planner will also transmit your individual requirements, ideas, and style to the vendors to ensure that everyone is clear on your goals!
Rehearsal before the event
In order to make sure everything is perfect on your day, the planner schedules a rehearsal for the event to guarantee all vendors and participants are running smoothly. This is the final chance for the planner to correct any, and all, of the schedule details.     
On the event day
The biggest day of the event planning process! Aside from making sure the event as a whole runs well, the planner must make sure that all vendors arrive on time, produce their product, and leave on time. The planner is here to assist in any ways that you might need.

The glory of having a planner, especially the planners from GKYS, is from the moment that you begin planning for your event to the event date, you will create not only an inspirational event but an everlasting relationship with the people supporting you on your big day. The memory of a well executed event will last a lifetime!
Written by Shu Hua Li and Emily Surabian. Shu and Emily are both Marketing & Event Planning Interns for Golden Knot Yacht Services, a Yacht Event Planning Company for Weddings, Corporate Events, and Special Occasions in New York City, NJ, Philadelphia, DC, Baltimore, Annapolis, Florida, San Diego, Newport Beach, Marina Del Ray, Hawaii, Boston, Miami, and the Bahamas.
www.goldenknotys.com
@goldenknotyacht

A few of our preferred vendors we work with, showcased here:
The Tuxedo Club https://thetuxedoclub.net/
Salon Beverly Hills 
Blush Bar LLC https://www.blushbarllc.com/
Mallory Weiss Planning https://malloryweissplanning.com/
About the Details NYC http://www.aboutthedetailsnyc.com/
Decorative Decors http://www.alisonbarnak.com/

Tuesday, September 25, 2018

Ever Changing Wedding Traditions: September 2018 Edition


The wedding world is forever changing. What’s in? What’s out? Or more likely what will be in and what will be out? We’ve learned key ways to stay on top of the ever changing trends. Learning and reading about the events and wedding industry on a frequent and consistent basis has helped. Following the right wedding and event accounts on IG is a must. Wedding experts are always sharing and/or showing their opinions and individual spinoffs regarding the next best things and what the couples are starting to try out. These visuals help shape what we see at weddings today.


Doing this same type of research, we also find what’s typical for couples not to want at their big day anymore. Wedding Day factors that have gone out of style. The best way to stay proactive with this is to hear from clients themselves. It’s important to listen to what they’re asking for and what they aren’t. Every couple has different tastes and will plan their wedding the way they want to but it’s often easy to find a common thread between multiple wedding clients and pull a common denominator. So I’ve compiled a list from a mix of my wedding research and personal client experiences to share what traditions may be on the way out and what is on the way in to replace it!

Cake is out. Fun desserts are in! Yes, the cutting of the traditional white wedding cake that tastes slightly stale with too much icing with a bride and groom cake topper that looks vaguely like you that everyone only eats a few bites of, is slowly losing popularity. If cake is out, then so is the classic cake face smoosh that follows the cutting. Only specialty cakes with unique designs and flavors or even in a unique position, perhaps upside down, remain in.



Now couples are more interested in providing guests with their personal favorite sweet treats that are typically unique and yummy. Anything goes from an ice cream sundae bar and cotton candy machine to various pie flavors and warm cookies and milk. Often the desserts are revealed as a surprise to guests and are sure to satisfy every sweet tooth.


The sweetheart table is out. Mingling with guests is in! Couples are tending to lean away from the table for two and swapping it out for a seat with close friends and family. It’s a way to be more connected to your guests and feel more like a part of the wedding than an observer. Some couples are opting out of a seat altogether and instead take the time when all guests are seated to visit each table and chat with the attendees. Either way, the couples want to be more included in the dining hour.

Saturday weddings are being pushed aside with more Friday, Sunday, and even weekday weddings! These new potential wedding days are typically less expensive compared to the highly desired Saturday. Now that couples are trying out new days, it’s a wonder why Saturday was even all that special after all. Fridays offer a great opportunity to make a long weekend wedding event and are especially great for family visiting from out of town. Having a non Saturday weekend is a great alternative and in most cases be less expensive.

The bouquet toss is being tossed aside and substituted for a multitude of  other unique moments. Instead of gathering all the single women at the event on the dance floor in order to battle for a catch that qualifies you for the next wedding- couples are changing it up! Some give the bouquet to the longest married couple at the wedding as a tribute to true love and a long marriage. Other times, they’ll split the flowers up and give them to close family and friends. Sometimes they even gather all the children attending the event and throw a few teddy bears into the crowd. Couples can now create a new, more meaningful tradition for guests to enjoy.

The dramatic exit from your wedding complete with fireworks and music is out. Staying until the last possible minute dancing the night away with your guests is in. Couples are taking full advantage of their most magical night with loved ones and savoring every moment dancing and living it up. Speaking of living it up...open bars are out and signature cocktails are in! Couples are leaning towards offering a few signature drinks compared to a full bar of choices.

Small intimate wedding parties are in and huge groups are out. It’s a lot more popular to choose 1-4 of your closest friends and family to be in your wedding party compared to the past where numbers reaching up to double digits was common. This not only saves money and makes planning easier but also makes the wedding a little more intimate. Some couples are opting for no wedding party at all!

Spending late nights planning your wedding by the light of your laptop is out and hiring a professional wedding planner is in! As more women join the workforce, it’s harder for couples to find any time to plan and it seems to be an added stress on top of work. Wedding planners take away that stress of dealing with anything and everything you need them too. Plus they are experts in guiding couples through the process. Having someone to turn to for advice and questions and not having to worry about every little detail will no doubt save you extreme levels of anxiety.
Trying to impress your guests is in!



Couples have always wanted their guests to enjoy the wedding but recently the enjoyment has been taken to a whole new level of pressure to dazzle guests.

A focus on guest experience is a top priority to many couples.

Booking incredible performers and thinking up out of the box surprises and lavish decor is all a must to create a night that attendees will never forget.  
Going along with the wowing of guests is the move towards more unique venues to enhance the special day. More traditional venues like banquet halls and ballrooms are being pushed aside for trendier spaces like city rooftops, lofty warehouses, historic mansions on acres of land, and

even gorgeous yacht weddings on glistening harbors.  

The unique venue adds to the guest experience to make a night no one will forget. Plus it offers opportunities for extraordinary pictures!
Decor budgets are ever changing as well. Spending money on copious amounts of flowers is out and in exchange the money is being spent on unique decor! If you and your significant other met at a Yankees game, expect to see the New York baseball team’s logo somewhere. If Paris is where the proposal happened, then the Eiffel Tower is bound to be incorporated. Keeping it tasteful but adding in personalized elements is growing in popularity in comparison to spending it all on flowers and casual decor.

Even how guests are giving wedding gifts is changing! Registries of home necessities the couple picked out is fading in turn for a different type of registry.  Some couples are opting to have guests give money for a honeymoon activity such as a private wine tasting or gondola ride through Venice, Italy. This can make the attendees feel included in helping the new happy couple make memories they won’t forget, compared to buying them a blender. Other couples are now more inclined to ask guests to donate the money they would have spent, to a specified charity of meaning to the couple. This makes the day just a bit bigger than themselves.  
These trends are just a few that wedding experts and myself have taken notice of and certainly isn’t a rulebook for how your wedding “should be.” The idea of trends and traditions can be confining to some couples so don’t be apprehensive if you want to stick to an older tradition or try something new- maybe you’ll start the next wedding trend! Being an event planner for a unique venue only- yachts- makes this an exciting time to be in the business. Couples are more willing and curious to look into a yacht wedding and all of the unique and unparalleled amenities we offer. Not only that, but couples are realizing the value of having an event planner and just how much support and industry expertise they can benefit from. This ideal time makes an event enthusiast like me very intrigued for what’s to come next in the wedding world!  



Written by Charlotte Lewis. Charlotte Lewis is the Marketing & Event Planning Intern for Golden Knot Yacht Services, a Yacht Event Planning Company for Weddings, Corporate Events, and Special Occasions in New York City, NJ, Philadelphia, DC, Baltimore, Annapolis, Florida, San Diego, Newport Beach, Marina Del Ray, Hawaii, and the Bahamas. Don’t just float through life, catch some waves.
www.goldenknotys.com
@goldenknotyacht

Our preferred vendors we work with, showcased here:
The GingerSnap Cake Shop https://www.thegingersnapcakeshop.com/
ChocAmo Cookie Cups www.chocamo.com
Decorative Decors http://www.alisonbarnak.com/
Conrad's Concessions http://www.conradsconcessions.com/

Tuesday, July 24, 2018

Destination Wedding Dos and Don'ts

For any couple planning a destination wedding, take these Dos and Don’ts into consideration to know exactly what to expect before your toes hit the sand! 

Location, location, location! Not only is this phrase essential in the real estate world, but it’s a top consideration for any dreaming couple planning their ideal wedding. The possibilities seem endless and somewhat daunting. Do you want a beach wedding, a traditional church ceremony, perhaps a yacht affair? Or maybe even something abroad- a destination wedding! 

A destination wedding typically involves guests traveling to the wedding and staying for several days in a vacation like location. The idea of a destination wedding is somewhat modern and has been growing in popularity in recent years. Post 2008 financial crisis, destination weddings actually grew in number as it was seen as an equally if not more beautiful alternative to a traditional location but at a cheaper cost since these are typically smaller affairs. Unless you have an unlimited budget, your guests will be paying for their own travel and lodging expenses, which cuts down on the couple’s overall cost, but may be a limiting factor in who attends the big day.

The thought of planning a wedding locally is intimidating let alone planning one in a different country. There is more to consider, culture to be integrated, and more effort into making a destination wedding seamless. So we compiled a master list of destination do’s and don’ts to consider before making the decision to be married a broad. 


DO’S 
First things first- is this whole destination wedding thing even for you? It certainly isn’t your traditional affair so if that's something that you’ve always dreamed of, maybe stick closer to home. But if you’re an adventurer, love to travel, want a unique wedding and one that may be a bit longer and have a more intimate guest list, than a destination wedding is something to consider. 

DO be strategic in your destination wedding location. You want to consider all options and narrow it down based on the meaning the location holds, your own preferences, but also travel accommodations. Think about the ease of your guests getting there as well as travel time in relation to the time staying there. You don’t want a 7 hour plane ride across multiple time zones only for your guests to stay for a long weekend and fly right back home. Picking a location thoughtfully will increase the chances of more people being able to attend and make the trip more worth it for everyone!

DO guarantee that the “must have guests” can attend before sending out invites to everyone. You want to ensure that key family members and friends are willing and able to attend a destination wedding. If they can’t attend it may be worth considering an alternative as you want your special day to be surrounded by the most important people in your life.

DO create a wedding website for guests. This is an essential tool that can make destination weddings a lot more organized and a lot less overwhelming for the couple and guests alike. The website can include things like wedding events itinerary, travel accommodation information, things to do in the area, and frequently asked questions such as packing lists, weather during the stay, and local currency conversions. Additionally, you can add more general wedding items like your social media hashtags and gift registry! Keep in mind that the gift registry is a great way for those who couldn’t attend the destination wedding to contribute and still feel involved. But give a price range of items as the guests that did attend the wedding have already put a lot of money into attending the big day. Overall the wedding website will help guests feel more confident in knowing what to expect, decreasing the amount of questions asked to the couple.

DO see the wedding site before booking it! It’s a good idea to visit the wedding destination prior to making plans if you can afford a trip over to visit. This gives you a chance to make sure the site is exactly what you pictured, get a lay of the land, and scope out potential housing and travel accommodations for guests. Overall, this will give more piece of mind and ensure the wedding’s best chance of success. 

DO give several options for guest accommodations. Whether it be a range of hotel options to transportation options- make sure you provide just that, a range. Unless you are planning on having everyone stay in an inclusive resort then it’s imperative to offer researched options for your guests to choose from. Include transportation options from the airport to housing as well as from the ceremony to reception if they are in separate locations so guests don’t have to worry about that either. 

DO deal locally where you can. Try to avoid bringing favors and decor from home as you’ll need to declare them and it may exceed the customs limit, leading to additional costs. Sometimes buying locally is cheaper! But don’t necessarily rule out all domestic options. It isn't out of the realm of possibilities to bring some of your favorite vendors over as long as you’re willing to cover the cost, such as a photographer. Especially when it comes to photographing the wedding, you want someone you love and trust so it may be worth the extra cost to fly them to the wedding.  Additionally, consider bringing your wedding dress on the flight as a carry on, as there is always a chance shipping gets lost or delayed. Always think on the safe side when it comes to transporting important wedding items!

DO incorporate local flavor into your wedding. Whether that is through favors for guests or cute gifts waiting in their hotel rooms holding local necessities, it really ties the wedding together. At the same time, remember to bring traditions from home. A mix of local culture and personal tradition will create a unique wedding that your guests will fall in love with.  

DO remember that the destination speaks for itself. You don’t need to outdo yourself with elaborate decor and flowers as the beauty of the destination sometimes says enough. Keeping it simple allows you to decrease costs and ideal for couples who want to have a second celebration with friends and family who couldn’t attend the destination wedding. It’s a popular choice to have a smaller gathering with those who can’t attend the wedding so they have a chance to celebrate and send their well wishes! 

DON’T panic! A destination wedding takes a little more thought and coordination than a local wedding but with enough time and proper planning support it’s no more work than any wedding. This starts with not waiting! Don’t send out invites too late. Send out save the date cards at least a year before the wedding to give guests enough time to make the proper accommodations. From buying their tickets, figuring out their work schedule, and childcare, guests will certainly appreciate the advance notice. It’ll pay off in the long by starting the planning as early as possible. 

DON’T think that everyone you invite will attend. It’s hard enough for everyone you invite to a local wedding to attend, so expecting everyone will travel abroad for an extended period of time is assuming a lot. Everyone is busy and getting time off for work is difficult. Additionally, it’s expensive to buy a plane ticket and hotel room if you weren’t budgeting that money. The worst thing you can do is pressure your guests- so go into it with an open mind and good attitude. 

DON’T assume people know what they are doing. Destination weddings don’t happen every day and chances are your wedding will be the first one most of your guests will attend. Use your wedding website to ensure questions can be answered so they feel confident knowing what to expect and what is expected of them for the big day. 

DON’T over plan guests. The main event is your wedding and while having a lot of unique local activities planned sounds like a good idea- it’s better to limit those to a few. You want guests to relax and enjoy themselves and your company, not be running around all day to various excursions. Offering a few personalized options is best. Also, planning relaxed bonding moments like beach bonfires and morning brunches with everyone is a great idea to get everyone together in a laid back environment. 

DON’T forget to do your research! It’s important to keep in mind that having a wedding abroad may create a culture boundary that you’ll want to dissolve. Make sure you know about common laws, culture, and especially wedding customs. Be sure to share these with guests on your website!  Also be aware if there is any paperwork needed in order to ensure the legality of the wedding. Going in prepared will create the best wedding environment possible with no surprises. 

DON’T feel obligated to include children. While it’s common for guests to bring their kids along for a destination wedding to take advantage of a family vacation, it’s not necessary to include the children in the wedding events. Just be clear in who you address the invitation to and be sure to offer up childcare options for parents.

While this master Do and Don’t List will be sure to get you started, Golden Knot Yacht Services can actually put your visions and plans into motion. First and foremost an event planning company planning events on yachts, Golden Knot can also plan all inclusive destination weddings through the luxury resort: Sandals. As a certified event specialist, we can assist you in planning your destination wedding in a more personal way. Sandals offers destination wedding plans that include everything you need to make your big day vision come to life! Every Sandals wedding includes the wedding, reception, personal event planning team, wedding website, preparation of marriage documents as well as some fun perks like spa pampering pre wedding and signature cocktails. Combine your honeymoon with your wedding, and guests can stay and enjoy their own vacation! With Golden Knot Yacht guiding you throughout,  Sandals Destination Wedding and Honeymoons have never been more attainable!  


Written by Charlotte Lewis. Charlotte Lewis is the Marketing & Event Planning Intern for Golden Knot Yacht Services, a Yacht Event Planning Company for Weddings, Corporate Events, and Special Occasions in New York City, NJ, Philadelphia, DC, Baltimore, Annapolis, Florida, San Diego, Newport Beach, Marina Del Ray, Hawaii, and the Bahamas. Don’t just float through life, catch some waves.
www.goldenknotys.com
@goldenknotyacht



With help from a few Sources:
https://www.brides.com/story/dos-donts-of-destination-wedding-planning 
https://destinationido.com/top_20_dos_and_donts 
https://www.marthastewartweddings.com/231191/destination-wedding-dos-and-donts?slide=755300 
https://bridalmusings.com/2015/08/planning-a-destination-wedding/ 
http://destinationweddingdetails.com/planning-a-destination-wedding.html 
https://www.bemakeful.com/weddings/the-dos-donts-of-a-destination-wedding/ 

Monday, June 18, 2018

Paper Invite vs. Evite: The Big Wedding & Event Planning Debate

We review the good and the bad of both paper invites and email invites. But in the end, we suggest the best advice.


Thanks to the explosion of online presence in the past two decades, a whole new plethora of options has transformed the wedding industry. Social media has given weddings a platform to be displayed. Now people can post their wedding design ideas, engagement photos, lavish attire, unique venues, and overall wedding aesthetics. The undercurrent beneath all of this? Comparison and a growing need to impress and outdo the rest.


person writing envelopes
Paper invite vs. e-vite
I felt this phenomena first hand when my close friend and seasoned bridesmaid Vicki came to me and a group of friends for advice. She explained how she was planning the bridal shower and needed to send out invitations. The bride's family was pushing for evites, the online version of an invitation, yet Vicki wasn’t sure. She worried they would seem tacky and rushed and wondered what the guests would think. In the end, Vicki asked the Bride to Be and she said she’d be mortified if e-vites were sent and that she’d pay for the invites herself if it meant avoiding the evites. I shared my own experience with the group about a bride who wanted Evites for her wedding invitations and told them how we received responses within the hour! It made the whole process that much easier and move that much faster. In the group chat, Lindsey countered with “it’s not about how easy or how fast people respond, it’s about caring!” Did evites automatically assume thoughtless and easy? I couldn’t stop thinking about the seemingly small choice and disproportionate dramatic reaction to something as simple as invite vs. evite. Yet this predicament isn’t an uncommon one. Social media fuels decisions like this- keeping the wedding “classy” is more important than ever when your Facebook friends will see.  So let’s pull out the ol’ pro and con list to see if paper invite benefits actually outweigh evites or if the online wedding world has correctly coined evites as tacky and therefore terrible.
invite with flower
Mailed invite



Paper Invite Pros


Weddings are a rare and special occasion. They are carefully planned and executed with focused attention to meticulous detail.  The announcement of such an event should be done in a way that stands out and can be saved and cherished for years to come. There is something very meaningful in opening up an envelope containing exciting news. Not only was this shared with you, but it was addressed and stamped and transported through many hands, possibly across a vast distance to reach your doorstep. There was thought and effort put into this. This mindset is understood when you receive a paper invite. Receiving a paper invitation gives the perception that the event is very important, which it is! Especially since snail mail has become more rare, it’s even more of a signal of importance to receive a paper invite. After opening the invitation, you now have a tangible reminder to RSVP as well as a beautiful keepsake to hang on the fridge.  Seeing the invite everyday hanging on the fridge reminds you to respond in a timely manner and also keeps you excited for the approaching event. There is also such a wide variety of paper invites. The design can really encompass anything you dream up and can have textured add ons like lace and beads. Other popular designs like foil stamping and engraving is something only possible through paper invitations. Additionally, there are so many options for DIY paper wedding invitations if you are a crafty bride. This can make the invite that much more meaningful and exciting to receive.




Paper Invite Cons


It’s called snail mail for a reason. Paper invitations require much more time in order to be made and prepared in addition to the actual snail mail process that ensues after that. Don’t forget that the reverse process must take place for RSVPs to return to an eager bride. God forbid an invite or RSVP gets lost in the mail. Further, the cost of paper invites is typically significant. According to wedding industry survey site theweddingreport.com, the average price for 150 invitations and response cards is $245, and that doesn’t include stamps! For a small wedding or one on a budget, spending a significant amount of money on fancy, custom invites seems frivolous when you can easily spread the word in a cheaper and seemingly equally effective manner.


This simply is an unnecessary allocation of money that could be put to better use in another part of the wedding budget. At the very least you can save some money by doing evites for engagement parties and save the date notices. While not as important or grand as the actual wedding invitation, these smaller wedding activities can be sent in cute evites that may be seen as more acceptable by guests.





Evite Pros


It’s an easy, seamless, cheaper or even free option! Evites are easy to create and send out right away and are especially useful for a quickly approaching event. You can easily upload any engagement photos you may have and find a template that fits your taste. They can be just as lavish and beautifully designed online as a paper version. RSVPs will be collected faster as you skip all of the time consuming steps of snail mail. Additionally, all responses will be organized online for your convenience so you have one less thing to worry about.


But one of the biggest bonuses of Evites are most certainly the low cost. According to Evite, 750 premium invitations cost only $50! Saving money on evites can allow you to spend more money on a great band or more expensive caterer, aka the more enjoyable and memorable experiences. Oh and it’s eco friendly! Etiquette expert Peggy Post notes that many couples think of email or paperless wedding invitations as “practical, thrifty and green.” This may be especially important to an eco friendly couple trying to make a statement.




Evite Cons


The negative connotations that come along with evites are pretty extensive, particularly with your guests who prefer things more old school. The older generation especially will see evites as cheap and impersonal. The use of email and what its acceptable to send this way is still  a grey area in many regards. But, sending evites to the most important day of your life is most definitely considered a taboo to many. Much of the older generation doesn’t use email or wouldn’t know how to access the evite, let alone respond. These preferences are more split along generational lines as your millennial guests will be much more accepting of electronic invitations, but your grandma and her friends- not so much. Because evites are so accessible, they are viewed as less special or not as important and therefore the event can be viewed in that same light. Many people consider evites to be tacky and even plain lazy of the host. Those are the last words you used when describing your wedding! The lack of tangibility can cause guests to forget key details of the event.  Additionally it’s easy to lose the invitation in a crowded inbox and forget the event all together.





At the end of the day it all comes down to personal preference. Every family member and friend will have an opinion on what to do and what would work best or look best but it isn't their decision.


Your wedding and all of your wedding activities that go along with it are just that: yours. The fact that there are two popular and hotly contested forms of wedding invites means that there is obviously a significant following for both sides. People see the pros and cons in both and it ultimately comes down what you think works best for your situation.  Depending on your budget, timeline, style, and overall planning approach, you’ll find the invitation form that fits best for you. And the people following you on social media who aren’t invited to your big day shouldn’t factor into a decision. When all is said and done, your guests who were invited will just be thrilled that they got an invitation to the biggest moment in your life, whether they open an envelope or an email.  





Here are some of our top picks for Invitations & Evites:


Paper Lovers:
  1. Ceci Johnson- one of the top custom luxury wedding invitation designers in the industry https://www.cecinewyork.com
  2. Minted- brings together independent artists to create fresh design ideas for your perfect wedding invitation https://www.minted.com
  3. Etsy- a variety of handmade, custom invitations made by small business owners around the world https://www.etsy.com




Paperless Lovers:
  1. Evite- a large variety of free evites available as well as premium upgrades https://www.evite.com
  2. Paperless Post- a simple and practical invite approach https://www.paperlesspost.com
  3. Punchbowl- a variety of themes and designs for any bridal activity https://www.punchbowl.com




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Written by Charlotte Lewis. Charlotte Lewis is the Marketing & Event Planning Intern for Golden Knot Yacht Services, a Yacht Event Planning Company for Weddings, Corporate Events, and Special Occasions in New York City, NJ, Philadelphia, DC, Baltimore, Annapolis, Florida, San Diego, Newport Beach, Marina Del Ray, Hawaii, and the Bahamas. Don’t just float through life, catch some waves.
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